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IMPORTANT NOTE: Not all listeners on this site are licensed counsellors, although, we do provide training. If any listener/advisor is found to be abusing or treating clients in an unacceptable manner, you will be removed as an advisor.. Or even banned from the site.We are strict on our guidelines and anyone who does not abide by them will face severe consequences.

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